Finding a spouse or partner can be especially stressful for people with SCD. Different aspects of the disease make dating more complicated. However, people with SCD are not inferior partners, and most dating problems are caused by the partner’s lack of readiness and understanding.
Healthy relationships can be a source of comfort and emotional support for people with SCD. Talking about the disease early and often with your partner is helpful. It can bring you closer to your partner and help you stay physically and emotionally healthy.
HOW SICKLE CELL AFFECTS DATING
Dating is difficult for anyone, but it can be especially daunting for people with SCD. Not every person is able to date someone with SCD. This has nothing to do with you. It has more to do with the emotional maturity, compassion, and reliability of the other person.
SCD affects dating in many ways. People with SCD report that the disease impacts relationships when:
- The partner has misconceptions about SCD
- Intimacy and sex become stressful because of SCD complications
- Complications and hospitalizations require the partner’s support and dedication
- Anxiety and depression affect communication and other aspects of the relationship
Dating with these burdens may seem overwhelming, but SCD does not make you an inferior partner. Many people with SCD find that healthy and loving relationships are possible, and that they make living with SCD easier.
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